IT GIRL
remembering who the fuck you are
If you’ve ever felt like a doormat, like you’re everyone else’s emotional filling station, like somehow you’re the one who never gets her needs met or feels unworthy, you’re in the right place, woman.
My Doormat Story
Can you imagine me as a doormat? Well, let me tell you a secret! Yours truly used to be a doormat. Yep… signing my paychecks over to my husband, hiring a babysitter while he was home with our baby so he wouldn’t have to “babysit” while I went to work, having no idea how to pay our bills, leaving all the details of our finances to him with zero clue of where my own money was going, having no relationship with the word “no,” and boundaries?? What were those?
Believe me when I say, I know first-hand, just how worthless that feeling is.
I was 30-years-old, had everything I really wanted on paper, except… I had zero self-worth. Every single thing I did and was hinged on if my husband would perceive me, accept me, or worse… if he would reject me. I found myself almost paralyzed by the comings and goings of his approval. Meanwhile, the strong, brilliant, lively and zesty woman that I was on the inside began to shrink, and not just a little.
I remember one day, my son was a year old and my husband and I had just had a huge argument. I went for a walk with our son so I could get some air and I remember stumbling across a book on boundaries and I remember thinking, “if I start this, my whole life is going to change!” And guess what? It absolutely did.
Once I began my work in boundaries, things shifted pretty quickly. Was it scary? Hell yes!!! But was it worth it? HELL FUCKING YES!!!
Since then my life, relationships, finances, lifestyle and body have had a massive upgrade because of the work I’m about to teach you.
And I’m not some coach on a pedestal. I’m teaching you what I practice every day of my life… the good, the bad, the messy and the magic of what boundaries, communication and confidence building can do for your entire life. Transforming you from a doormat into… an IT GIRL!!!
This program runs for 6 months and it includes…
Along with a library of videos to guide you on concepts we’ll cover throughout the program, the content available here is an outline I’m working off, as I create this program LIVE with you. This means slight shifts & add-ons are expected. And content, videos, chats and a library will also build.
Group Coaching calls - 60-90 min each, 2x/month. We meet every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month. These calls are where the magic happens. This is where you will get, witness to practice confidence and connection with women. If you feel uncomfortable being vulnerable with a group of women, THAT’S PRECISELY YOUR SIGN THAT THIS IS ABSOLUTELY RIGHT FOR YOU. That’s the type of hiding, small, inferiority complex sort of energy we’re going to work on rehabilitating. You’ll also get live coaching on the call, as well as deep dives into the concepts available to binge in your library.
Video Library - all group coaching calls will be posted in the video library, as well as some other special teachings and treats for you to level up your confidence.
Community Feed - Friends don’t let friends sabotage alone (hehe). This will be an awesome space to practice communication, connection, confidence in self-expression and being a part of a community that is doing the same things you are.
Cirriculum Outline
I’m going to take you through an arc of personal power. Giving you curated and bespoke content that addresses: codependency, boundaries, sabotage, inferiority, lack of confidence, and practicing stellar communication skills.
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BENEFITS, BABE
So, let me tell you exactly how this journey will transform your life.
Every week, you will have new videos, practices, exercises and community to help you implement new ways of being in relationship. I’ll be serving energetic adjustments, videos on communication and boundaries that foster killer self-worth and inspiring confidence.
In addition, connect with a community of women invested in this journey with you to connect, learn from and reflect with as you go through these portals of growth when I’m not there.
If you’ve tried the diet version of this program by reading books, consuming Instagram and tiktok content up to your ears, but you just aren’t seeing the up level in your confidence the way you know you can be, this is the shit, girl. You hit the jackpot!
Let me do the heavy lifting for you and lead you through the exact process I’ve taken to completely up-level my self-worth, change the quality of people I have in my life, the quality and happiness of my life and the level of self-respect I have.
Here’s the truth… if you have a traumatic past, you probably learned a ton of really unhealthy ways of doing relationships, communicating or being in the world… all of which lead to a loss of dignity, insecurity, transference of responsibility, hiding, being small, secretive, and a shell of what your actual potential is.
This is not the life you’re meant for!! Believe me.
IT GIRL was created to help you build self-assuredness, self-confidence, self-trust, dignity, inner quiet confidence, reliable skills and self-love through it all.
The first step?
A review on boundaries and communication. We’ll study boundaries, communication and your personal habits as you stand today. And then, I’m going to take you to school… your PhD program, actually. And I am going to give you somewhat of a degree in the skills that equal magnetism, radiance, inspired living and authenticity.
I’ve heard you all ask for a program that slices through that stuff that keeps you stuck in your head, in sabotage, in confusion about relationships and in a guessing game about why you have what you have in relationships. So… I gave you a program to arm you with exactly the skills you are going to need for: relationship skills, decoding other peoples’ communication and what it all means, dating/relating standards and protocol, how to communicate with family, how to protect yourself from emotional and energetic violators, how to stop participating in patterns where you’re always the victim and so so much more.
And even better - I’m your right-hand woman through it all. You don’t have to do this alone. You get to have support, guidance, love, community, sisterhood, guidance, weekly check-ins and one common space to go to so-called “confidence school”.
Call me Professor Confidence because I am, in fact, your Confidence CEO where it really counts and that’s in getting back to your roots of self-worth and self-trust.
FAQs
What is the format of IT GIRL?
The format of IT GIRL is a combination of curated video teachings, community chats and support, bi-weekly calls, and expert guidance along the way. This is a longer container because that’s what serves the transformation required for this type of transformation. After 6 months, you can either continue or split. Totally up to you. Either way, you’ll come away with a ton of new skills to do life and YOU with.
What type of person is this program best suited for?
This program is best for women who are ready to commit and invest in themselves. A bit like a gym membership for your energy, insides, relationships, and boundaries in all your relationships, this program is best for a woman who is ready for change. The cool part is, you don’t have to put on a sports bra and drive to the gym. You can do this at your convenience, in your car on your lunch break, after you put your kids down or early on a Sunday morning walk before you get your day started. Women who are perfect for this program are women who have patterns of: codependency, struggle with communication or being “too much”, passive aggressive or just shut down. Women who have patterns of being a rescuer or always a victim of life… yes, this is for YOU! This program is perfect for any woman who’s ever felt like she knows she deserves more, struggles with feeling confident in her body, career, or relationship but really desires to feel “better”.
I’m very new when it comes to boundaries and I’m not great with communication. Will this be too advanced for me?
Nope! This program is designed for all levels. We start with the basics and the 101s… because who doesn’t need a refresher? And we build from there. Every woman is working with a different past, different patterns, different lifestyles and different challenges. The cool part about the work I do with women is that I am versed in all of the levels and if you’re even reading this right now and have gotten this far, chances are it’s for you. I work with the energy in the room, not the content or curriculum. My goal is to create teaching that you can hear and implement on your own terms. There is no pass or fail here. The teachings will reach you perfectly where you are.
I’m not a newbie when it comes to boundaries, communication and confidence stuff, will this be too basic?
Nope! Again, after working with women for well over a decade, I am an EXPERT at variety. I’ve never in my life heard that my teaching is “too basic.” If anything ever feels “too basic,” just make sure to be on a call and we can spotlight coach right there. You will feel the up-grade and potent medicine of it all right on the call. Let this work challenge you in all the right places, girl. It’s time. That’s why you’re here.
Will I get 1-1 feedback/attention from Katie?
You bet your ass you will. We have a ton of engagement and interaction in the program. Maybe that’s on the community chat, where I’ll pop in, or on our group calls where I’ll do 1:1 coaching spotlights, or catch me for a quick 1:1 private coaching session and you’ll have all of my attention. If you want my attention, all you have to do is show up!
How much time will this program take?
Around 1-2 hours per week. You can always add more if you’d like (depending on your engagement) but you can expect around 1-2 hours per week as an average. However, your life will begin to change when you start this work. So, your own personal relationships and the practice you put in there is another story. But that’s all part of your practice of self-mastery in action.
What makes this offer different from others like it?
Engagement with me, for starters. I’ve been told I put a ton of love, attention, care and time into my groups and the women invested with me. If you show up, you’ll get the lessons. Secondly, community. Community is a huge part of building confidence. Most of us try to study this stuff in isolation, by ourselves, separate of what could challenge us. I put you in an environment where you are exposed with safety, guidance and leadership so that you actually get to practice the skills you’re learning with witness and support.
How long will I have access to the content?
As long as you’re in the program.
When do the live calls take place?
We meet twice a month on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday at 5 pm PT.
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IT GIRL
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$399/month
6 month minimum
2 Monthly Calls with Katie
Private Mighty Networks Community
6 Month Minimum